How do men squirt

The first time I saw squirting, I didn't really know what I was looking at. The squirter was named Cytherea, an adult actress who had become synonymous with an ability to ejaculate large volumes of fluid—that was supposedly not pee—during sex acts. So rare was this talent that a interview with Adult Video News described her as having a "one-of-a-kind sexual gift. Within months, scores of other adult performers were suddenly able to squirt prodigiously, forcefully, and seemingly on cue. And before too long, I had a date with a woman who requested that we put a towel or two down on my bed before things got underway.

Men, after all, have to deal with the frustrating refractory period—after an orgasm, their penises stay limp no matter how much they try to coax them into action. Their energy levels are depleted, anyway, and they often just want to sleep. But men actually can have multiple orgasms—as long as they separate their orgasm from the physiological experience of ejaculation. It is possible to separate the experience of orgasming from the experience of ejaculating. Learning how to separate orgasm from ejaculation takes a lot of effort, determination, time, and practice. For some men, it may not be worth it. You may also find that focusing so heavily on trying to orgasm in a very specific way takes the fun out of orgasm.

Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual intercourse than he or his partner would like. Premature ejaculation is a common sexual complaint. Estimates vary, but as many as 1 out of 3 men say they experience this problem at some time. As long as it happens infrequently, it's not cause for concern. However, you might be diagnosed with premature ejaculation if you:.

Yes, mere pleasure-seeking mortals can do it, but it just might not look like you think. Despite sex educators, sex journalists hi! One of those things on most pleasure-seekers' lists? That's exactly why she and sex educator Lola Dean , who holds the world record for volume squirting—seriously, mL in 25 seconds—are going deep on the subject.